Why is this fifty year old woman trying to have a pissing match with me? We barely know each other (I barely know her) and she has the biggest grudge against me for ~seemingly~ no reason.
We work together maybe 2-3 times a week.
I’ll admit to being rude as shit to her (after she was rude to me, but not first).
SHE’S FIFTY. I’M TWENTY.
She has gone to 3 managers already telling them I’m doing things that I’m obviously not (refusing to check her section/refusing to help her).
I’ve tried multiple times to confront her and each and every time she scoffs/walks away from me.
She will not speak TO me, but has no problem running her mouth to the rest of the restaurant ABOUT me (who are obviously going to tell me what she’s said).
Today I asked her if she left her attitude at home and she told me to shut up (but then started walking away still talking under her breath). I asked her why she was still talking and her faced flushed a bright crimson that sent a wave of laughter shuttering out of me (which of course didn’t help her cheek situation).
I’ve gone to multiple managers about this and nothing has been/is being done about it.
Which brings me to: I’d like to quit my job, this month. Hell, this week! (I probably won’t who wants to learn a new menu PLUS I’d rather get out of food all together). The people suck, the kitchen doesn’t communicate well at all (with each other or with servers), mostly the servers suck, the managers are whack as shit (not helpful at all [Pat is the exception]), and I don’t make enough money to be angry or frustrated every time I’m at work.
I don’t remember the last time we actually hired an employee who knew what they were doing or wanted to learn how to do something right.
The same 4-5 people are habitually given the best sections and the other 20 servers are left with the rest.
I make decent money 80% of the time (unless I’m just really having a shit shift) and I do usually get a pretty good section but it doesn’t seem right.
No one really does things completely or the way that they are supposed to be done, and yes I am including myself in that because there are times that I cut corners and just couldn’t give a shit less about any of it because no one else does and they seem to get rewarded for their slacking so why shouldn’t I be rewarded also?
There are plenty of people who think themselves superior because they’ve been there for longer than other people or because they shift lead more often than most or any other reason you can think of for anyone to have their head up their ass.
It takes 10-15 minutes to get your drinks most nights (even with 2-3 bartenders), the cooks ignore you when you’re asking for/about your food.
I won’t go on…